It think that I have heard this one more times than I can count! For me, it is a sentence that comes by being easy to say but hard to master. We are human, it is in our nature to care what our peers and our family will think about our decisions. Sometimes we even rely so heavily on others opinions we forget why we wanted to do a task in the first place.

I want you just for a second to entertain what I have to say. I think we need to make more of an effort not to care what others think about us and our decisions. I have a couple of reasons, but the most important is, that they are going to talk either way. They will talk if they see you doing good or if they see you doing bad. So, I ask you why not try!

Another reason would be that, news flash… no one actually cares what you’re doing. Now, this does not mean that your mom, dad or significant other does not care about your wellbeing. What this means is that everyone has so much going on in their lives that they can’t keep up with, why would they be checking for you. I feel as though we make those assumptions up in our own mind. It honestly reminds me of when people use the “I don’t go to the gym because people are watching” excuse. Again I say, news flash, the people in the gym are looking at themselves in the mirror trying to work on them. This was a crappy example, I know ! But, you get the point!

My challenge for you, for the rest of the day is to do at least one think you like or love and screw what others think of you! Put yourself and your happiness first!

With that, my good peeps, I say, let’s have a good day! Until next time, stay safe and love ya ❤