Happy Monday! The first Monday of a new year to be more specific. I think this year I want to approach the new year in a different way. Instead of “new year, new me” I’m going with, new year better me. I like the way I have started to come into my own, and I want changes to happen naturally. My goal is to self improve everyday and to create habits that will last all year and maybe even a life time.

Ok, so lets get to why the post is titled “LUCK OR HARD WORK”. I think we can all agree, that we sometimes see people and think “wow, they have everything. Must be nice”. Having a mindset like this can be a little dangerous. This makes us believe that wow, some people just have everything handed to them. Why can’t I be like them. When in reality, we have not one clue what those individuals had to go through to get where they are.

Too often we compare ourselves to the people around us or on social media. This has to stop! We also need to remember that social media is used to highlight and that people are able to create fasades for themselves, they get to highlight the extremely good or even make up a whole new life for themselves.

Now here is the real question, Luck or Hard Work? The answer, We will never really know. To be quit honest, it is none of our freaking business. What is our business is being happy for others. Showing support and maybe even asking questions to see if they could give tips and tricks to help you succeed as well. Yes, certain niches will be over saturated but there is a place for everyone, so why be bitter and jealous when we can work together ?