I have been on this blogging journey for about six months. Before I went public it was something that I enjoyed doing. I would wake up in the morning just to blog. It would be so much fun. Mostly because I didn’t censor myself or try to write about what I think people would want to read; I would just write until my page was full. Now that I am public and trying to gain a following, I am feeling the pressure. I feel like I am trying to be like the other bloggers I see, which is making it hard for me to create content that I would even like. I don’t want to be like the other bloggers. The whole reason I made this page is to show people that it is ok to be different and live weirdly and now look at me, trying to be like everyone else. I know that what I have to show to the world is awesome. 

How I can change 

As I preach to you guys so much I am going to stay in my lane and not compare myself to other people. I am still going to look at their pages for inspiration but at the end of the day, I will create something unique to me. 

What I want

What I want is simple, I want a community that is open and free. I want to write without restrictions and be my authentic self while still providing valuable lessons to women. I want people to know that you do not have to be a cookie-cutter to fit in. That it is ok to be flawed and to learn and grow. That not everything will be easy to grasp and that sometimes we will fail but we can always get back up and try again. I want you guys to enjoy my writing and come to my blog or page when you’re having a bad day and smile after reading a post. 

My goal 

My goal for myself is to make myself proud. I want to be able to look back and see that I did everything in my power to make myself happy.

At the end of the day 

Screw what everyone else thinks, as long as YOU are happy when you look in the mirror that is all that matters. Point blank PERIODDDD!