With time all things heal. With time thing fall into place. With time all the little things that had so much effort put into them will amount to great outcomes.

Life is measured by all of the small things that happen that eventually amount to what is the future. This is why it is important to do things you want now and or put in the work now so that all the effort will flourish in the future. However, while seeds are being planted it is important to enjoy admire the growth that comes along with it.

Growth is painful, it is uncomfortable, it is necessary. Unless staying in the same place is something that is appealing. Growth can also be beautiful when one is able to take a step back and be proud of all the hard work that has been put in. Growth is hard because it is not something that happens in one BANG. It is something that happens over a great deal of time. There are set backs but there are also moments when every door opens right on time. Through the journey of growth it is important to give graditude. Being grateful for how far down the road you have gone but also being hopeful for the future. Knowing of course that “bad” things might happen but because of growth being able to handle any situation that emerges will be substantially easier than anything that was dealt with in the past.

Notably it is important to understand that one persons journey will NEVER be like another persons. This is why the ugly trait of comparison should be abolished. Comparison is the killer of joy that only creates envy, jealously and honestly it is not a good look on anyone. Giving flowers can be down right painful especially when someone else is getting what you want but the feeling of jealously and envy will weigh the heart down 10x more. Give the flowers and move on.

The future is really what the mind wants it to be, but the future cannot happen if the imagination is not living free. The thoughts of others should not even enter the inter matrix of your spirit. The mind is a beautiful place, allowing it to grow and flourish will be what leads to a brighter future. This sounds “corny” but seriously. Let the universe work for you. Imagine your greatest self and always thing of her. Your current self will really appreciate it. There is no room for sadness, complacency or doubt. DO what you want and live the way you feel is right. There are only two people that matter your God (that is whoever you worship and if you dont that’s fine too) and yourself. It does not matter what your parents think, friends, family or partners. What really matters is if you are able to sleep peacefully at night with the decisions you have made. Make the right choice and live your life.

Growth is painful, growth is slow, growth is worth it. Be you, no matter what because there is only one of you.