Welcome back to my page where we take a look inside of my brain. Today we are going to take a deep dive into the fact that I have had this blog sight for almost 4 years! can you believe that!!? This time has been spectacular when I have the time to sit and write. No better time than the present to get to work on my pet project. My journal for the masses if you will. This new chapter of my life is called new experiences. I have been out of school now for 2 years which is the same amount of time I have worked in the corporate world. Let me tell you, corporate is no joke. Like none so I have to work really hard to have a productive life outside of work.

Activities outside of work include the following: running, walking, writing, crocheting, reading, yoga, pilates, baking, cooking, movies, spending time with friends, surfing the web, sleeping, relaxing, planning for future. Leaving no piece of time untouched. I am so grateful to have my job believe me I am which is the reason that I need to have balance. Sometimes too much of one thing can be overwhelming. I am working on mastering all of my skills. the difficult part is reminding myself that all great things take time and energy and I have to pour myself into all of the things that I do. I need to provide my full attention to the things that I love doing the most. Knowing that a job is a means to an end. My 8-5 is not my whole life and identity it is just the way that I make money and the goal is to be financially secure. Since I am an independent woman I need to make sure that I am able to take care and provide for myself. because right now this is what I have to do until I meet someone that can lighten the load.

As I continue though this changing point in my life I am really trying to be cautious of my dating life. I want to make sure that I am also in the dating pool for the right reasons. Unfortunately, I can be blinded by a handsome man and that is not what I want right now. Yes, I want a handsome husband but not at the expense of my morals. But I am only human. I can’t take life too serious and I do want to enjoy it but I can do that while keeping my head on straight. I have also found that when I am dating I am distracted from what I am supposed to be doing because I become infatuated. Like I seriously need to get a grip and act like I have been loved.

That’s where im at in life right now. It’s been pretty chill if I may say so. I am grateful for where I am in life and where I am being led. This life truly is a journey and I want to be able to enjoy the ride.