Even when I think I have everything together, the one thing that I am missing is reassurance. Having someone else tell me I am doing a good job. Seeking outside validation is one of the biggest “no, no’s” in the self improvement world. My response is that hearing that you are doing a good job every once in a while actually keeps you on track. I believe that it is the subconscious reminding me that someone might be watching and learning from what you are doing. For example, I am a gym rate, but sometimes it can get boring. Doing the same thing over and over almost makes me want to quit. Then someone will walk up and tell me they see a change giving me the outside validation. Making me want to continue on the journey.

Outside of that, it feels good when given validation. Like to today, I actually got ready taking my time to do my makeup and make sure my hair is nice. I walk into work and a woman called me beautiful. It felt so good. She reassured me that I look nice and presentable. This also goes to show how much a compliment can mean to someone. I have been trying recently to be more outgoing and talking to random people. Right now it is pretty awkward as I get used to actually talking to random people. I am growing and getting out of my comfort zone.