Jealous

A bitter word to come to terms with. Often rearing its evil little face in the moments that are least expected. Don’t ever mention this feeling aloud because you will be deemed weak. Why though? It’s a feeling that is common amongst most. However, the synonym for jealously is envy and this is a cardinal sin.

When the feelings of jealously or envy show it is important to recognize the feeling and not suppress it. Suppressing only adds fuel to the fire. By recognizing the feeling and taking inventory of why the feeling is coming up there can be reconciliation. Jealously is a feeling that dos not need to be held on to or dwelled on.

To avoid jealously, remember these simple rules.

1. Comparison is the thief of joy
2. You are living two completely different lives
3. Keep your eyes on your own lane
4. Know that whatever thing has happened to someone else can happen to you. In fact since it has happened to someone else that means it’s in your vicinity

Feelings happen, whether they are good or bad at some point they will be felt. Eventually the feelings of certain emotions will be easier to get rid of.

As long as active steps are being taken to improve there is nothing to worry about.