lgbtq
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Save Yourself
A recent epiphany that I had was the only person that is going to save me is me. I am the owner of my life and have control of my actions and reactions. I have the power to be someone else completely or I also have the ability to stay exactly the same. Either way…
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Knowing
eventually you will know
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Reassurance
Even when I think I have everything together, the one thing that I am missing is reassurance. Having someone else tell me I am doing a good job. Seeking outside validation is one of the biggest “no, no’s” in the self improvement world. My response is that hearing that you are doing a good job…
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Redirect
The lesson for today is learning and practicing redirecting thoughts. Today was an exceptionally good day but there were these tiny lingering thoughts in the back of my brain that just kept getting louder and louder until I acted upon them. I do not regret acting on my thoughts. However, in a different timeline I…
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Commitment is Sexy
Commitment is especially sexy when you are focusing on yourself. It is easy to show up for other people and be committed to them. Showing up for your self can be hard because if you dont follow through the only person that will know is yourself. Maybe for a while you can hide the shame…
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Learning
Practicing being opened minded is fundamentally improving my life. For me, I have to practice being opened minded because I can be very judgmental. Not in a bad way but at times it has gotten me some feedback. Which respect! (SN: I would rather someone be truthful to me and hurt my feelings rather than…
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Overcoming Fear of Greatness
Do not be afraid of your potential. Lean into it.
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A Little Older & A Little More Wise??
Welcome back to my page where we take a look inside of my brain. Today we are going to take a deep dive into the fact that I have had this blog sight for almost 4 years! can you believe that!!? This time has been spectacular when I have the time to sit and write.…
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Hey Honey
I have publicly announced (on my finsta) that I will be taking my blogging seriously. This blog has been around for some time now but I keep on letting it “die” so my goal for right now is to keep it alive. When I first started it I was having so much fun and honestly…




