The silver lining of every situation is what keeps my world. spinning. Trying to find a pocket of happiness where ever I can keeps my head above water. Taking even a millisecond to be thankful that I am no longer where I used to be and still have room to grow. Every day isn’t rainbows,…

I have dreams of becoming a writer, an author, published and read by any and everyone. The dream is big and scary. I like the way that I write but will other people. Will they hear my voice and want more or shut the pages before giving me a chance. Where do I start? I…

I actually hated the saying “take time for yourself”. It always made me think of some lonely girl that keeps getting her heart broken and doesn’t actually love herself. I guess I hated it because it was how I was before. After I took away the shame of being alone I discovered myself. I stopped…

Today was my first date in almost four months. Overall the experience was nice. We went to Top Golf and finished off with some drinks. During our conversation we did a cute game of “my red flag is…” mine was that I take Prozac. His was that he had a 6 year old child…… lol…….…

Through my own personal research I have found that majority of the relationship gurus have one rule in common, detachment. The art of knowing that no one and no thing belongs to us. Navigating the dating world is a beast of its own. Trying to get to know someone but also keeping them at arms…

I never really got into romance, rom-coms or another movie of the sort. I could never really put my finger on why I had such distain for the genre. Until I did some self evaluation. Through my evaluation I learned that I have a deep routed jealousy of the main character who in the end…

On my quest for transformation I must get rid of all distractions. This would include but not limited to social media(doom scrolling) & nonstop tv in background. I have grown to dislike being distracted by something all the time. I basically have an electronic in my face from the time I wake up to the…

The day was rather peaceful. Learning to be content with my own company is turning my life around. Everything has started to become easier. There were times when I would not feel right about being home on a Friday night. I left like I was missing out on life if I was not outside. Embarrassingly…

Bird is the word. I have had to take a long look in the mirror to recognize that I was displaying bird behavior. Yes, me. Honestly, it’s not that shocking. I have just finally been able to put a name on what the behavior reflects. The behavior reflects that of a bird. Now, I am…